Plan for the worst, hope for the best...

Nowadays I spent most of my nights reading immigration blogs, mostly about people getting denied, people in AP, people getting denied after AP.  I'm getting myself prepared for the worst case scenario.  I keep thinking of all the reasons they can deny us...we got married after a short time, we don't live together (because of work...but both of our names are on the apartment lease in Seoul), he's from Iran.  I envy the people who apply for a visa and get approved the same day they interview.  I envy them so much that I hate reading about them.  Jealously has turned up again...this post is starting to sound like the ones when I was trying to come to Korea.  Matt and I talked about how things always work out for us...but always last minute, he got his visa for Korea two weeks before he left.  I got mine on a Friday and left Sunday.  Things have a strange way of working out...but I just wanted to rant a little.  Hoping this process is over soon and we can start arranging parties in the US.